Hi everyone, and happy Monday to you! Have you ever felt like you were in a season of transition? I believe that is what I am in right now. It is so appropriate too as the actual seasons are begin to change from spring to summer. In this last week I have been constantly reflecting on some people in my life. Which direction am I meant to follow? Who is holding me back? Who do I need in my life, and who do I need to love from afar? Just as the seasons change, people and issues will do the same. Some lift you up and some bring you down, so how do we decide who stays and who goes? You can start by asking yourself these four questions:
- Are they a positive or negative influence in my life?
- Do they support me as a friend or family member should?
- Is this relationship based on the principle of “give and take”?
- Are they honest with me when I need them to be?
Whether you answered yes or no to these questions will help you make some decisions moving forward. At this point in my life I have learned to respectfully decline certain situations. I have found my power in NO, and I am moving into my purpose with positivity.
You may also be in a season of transition, and you may be analyzing some situations in your life as well. I am here to let you know that it is perfectly ok. Without some uneasiness there is no room for change. I ran across a quote the other day that said, “You are under no obligation to be the same person you were a year, a month, or even 15 minutes ago. You have the right to grow.” I really want to encourage you tonight. Spread your wings and grow. Those who truly love you will be right there with you cheering you on. I hope this helps someone tonight. Be well you guys.
Live. Love. Well & Fit.